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找工作、找对象,该不该在意户口?

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户口是什么?8057de7da9dd84b9cb7a0f9bbaaddbaa9ff73564

传闻有老外这样向西方人解释:“中国的户口相当于中国一个县或一个市里发的护照JjVjNmVkMzUxYTdkZjQ=,在这个县内d631079aba47e7edc100e3a2f747a8677b0be595,你拥有相应的权利与义务543de7ec3986c6f1cefa5164e0715c2d。如果你去了其他地区MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm569zr2i,你就部分地失去了这个权利JDVjNmVkMzUxYTgxNzc=。你不能享受当地的医疗保险、劳动保险ITVjNmVkMzUxYTdlMGU=,甚至不能同工同酬958825f968a51d0fc0514cd3e7001c5c,一般报酬比本地人低96180d4c8bf5e25c99c4b23b034968c583984d00,不能应聘当地的政府雇员KjVjNmVkMzUxYTdlMjU=,没有选举权与被选举权d69eeb42f95c2c6f668384560098af3949c05dac,他们的小孩不能与当地小孩一样去受同等的教育5f1cbe359779ac3d5f28b2dc861eb3704fc16676。当然IzVjNmVkMzUxYTdlMzM=,小孩也不能参加当地的高考去上大学8fb2c6b9bfd775a05cfb8147711c86d9,因为他们相当于是非法移民95194528b3275dfc517b938c5c250e88。”MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5yytbGi

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鸡汤哥觉得d896390dcbb9e7510f6098e776ca99b5,户口就像一套正装808d3fdd7a4634271e53fc456a2c7110f6cf1fee,它平时可能在你的柜子里挂着MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmzjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-xqL2i,但到了需要的时候d77ea0011f0413b0893178ddce339f20,你没有这么一套衣服还真没办法做一些事be39912b31b19fa49850be9d4c06842d7b99aaa087624b4cf04b190a30f0941039ba0c77

相信很多中国的家长都告诫过外出打拼的子女MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-xuLWi,“一定要拿到户口啊”IzVjNmVkMzUxYTgxOWM=eea423c471c9141fcb9de10364fdf27b

但家长说得到底有没有道理QDVjNmVkMzUxYTdlNmQ=,户口对你的生活重不重要6db2f38a2570d7e4fc9db0b5c919d4dc3840e594,找工作、找对象该不该在意户口?鸡汤哥今天帮你解决这个问题08e76c8658ebe5b242f9b3ab7ece8730XjVjNmVkMzUxYTdiY2U=

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户口的功能MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-x272i,那个老外已经说得非常清楚了MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqu8tbmifc4fb5fcc318dee4f1310f56a8d2ba7d

我们要考虑的是a57b637a17dd7da8c6869fd236fbef1f,这些功能MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmzjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-ypcei,自己需要的是哪些KjVjNmVkMzUxYTdlOTg=,不需要哪些MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqu8uLGi5aa9191fba2c7a84e1a7707f766be4fb

家长以及其他人让你一定要取得户口be66d3da1d0294e72dc98a47e7f08b5a,进一步是为了让你获得什么好处?你想要的和户口能给你的是否匹配?95d3e6350e482360a9a5b62569d13774

比如MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-8tami,一个高中生已经下定决心学文科c2ea4de9b0604d543cb927636bcd0c3229677efc,而家长只记得“学好数理化、走遍全天下”MDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-8uL2i,所以拼命让孩子做数理化习题KjVjNmVkMzUxYTdlYmY=,那这些练习其实就没多大用处805cd0107877a93d835c7d6674fe59d2c404ceaeQDVjNmVkMzUxYTdjMTE=

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很多人都有这样的体验:出门旅行前MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-826Wi,为应对各种状况而准备好多东西8f1d67fc68a45bb6dc48acfea5dd1f07,等到旅行回来63929fc0aee64f9c2fd9dc33c390e43b2fa25558,发现很多东西其实完全没用上MDAwMDAwMDAwMIF9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-9pbmi,反而成为累赘f3e882ee4a24afc333f845f6f6ab6c23804f97e4a43ee92a9ad14b1a5c13c5024bf054a345485aaf

在为人生做准备的时候MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm5-9qLGi,我们也可能是这样的299e19922f14e04399c2b81bf187c2e6JjVjNmVkMzUxYTdjM2U=

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面对未知0c8d22bfb58644c0394e99bb811e5e349fa6f98a,基因决定了人会焦虑XjVjNmVkMzUxYTdlZjQ=,而多做准备可以缓解我们的焦虑5ed5f379444e483e822dceec0fc67448。所以很多人忘记了思考ITVjNmVkMzUxYTdlZmM=,这些准备是否必要XjVjNmVkMzUxYTgxZTM=e46374626bdc81a6e015f0c83ca49233ad93ee4f

当然IzVjNmVkMzUxYTdmMDM=,也有相反的情况:没准备好什么东西31018c061f39cf23b2ad9db82ac042ea,但事情发生时十分需要它MDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqu9tbWi9835518ec55171cafd06c09541c965f3cf282b57

那么就进入下一个问题:当我们确定了4ae7db475f6bf3bbeff9de188570c017,未来自己的确需要一个户口c929a50fc46947f96bea099e9a9e2f51,为了取得户口应该花费多大的代价?5fdd6121a8d73889be18513963ff0c69

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常见的一个误区是:如果X是必需品44d78a0184c0cbd1daec91fe2cdf017e,那么为X花费多少代价都是值得的IzVjNmVkMzUxYTgxZjE=。这个X可能是一个硕士学位、可能是一位心爱的人、可能是一套婚房等MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqu9y62iJjVjNmVkMzUxYTdjOGY=

鸡汤哥要说MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6Cwy6Wi,必需品不一定代表高价值MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqu9y8-i。因为“必需”只是在为了某个特定目标的情况下才成立878fe622f41d54919dc3cfeba7308750de0984ba,而你完全可以有更换目标的选择4c3702633e26fb15176f42a5f851d4047ce033ce69cb64b24e8780a84d6a1c16211c426e

很多时候MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6Cwzrmi,是人的思维把自己困住cd66d12594e0ea8b8d07e1c8565e3100,才迫不得已为此付出极大的代价NWM2ZWQzNTFhODIwZQ==38731e6a5aa52e95be6dd6c5633ffd1c13ec28d4

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比如4fc21a364a06d02c94baa17dc517df5be1e84adf,孩子一定要上那所著名学校吗?80de164db5d36f19210de701c13c1fee

如果家长认为一定MDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6Cxpcei,那就要节衣缩食买学区房fdb68cc8c39654aa9043f4ab525cdc3d73fb66df,导致学区房的高价MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2HnqywtaWiKjVjNmVkMzUxYTdjYzU=

如果家长认为不一定JjVjNmVkMzUxYTdmNWU=,可以把钱花在其他地方培养孩子多方面发展2ae3275c13f66965bc85fab44fae04fd,那学区房就不会那么值钱55f826664d880e73632e3392d82b50286c26a05ee1529516366053d6600ff684

至于要坚持一个目标7e7fcfe6c26a39460e34fe8171f745a5,还是更换目标baca543e802ff5eec723263bf8ed5479,那就要衡量得到与付出的多少了MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqywy6WiXjVjNmVkMzUxYTdjZDY=

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没有公司会平白无故地给你额外的好处MDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqywy8ui。在充分竞争的市场中4bfa53fcb10ee139b104327642d926cd,你在各家公司能拿到的总收益应该是差不多的MDAwMDAwMDAwMH6QhZiQubTegop4mbN3gK2wsqGi。总收益包括工资、福利、落户等各方面a3407e20dd800182a9b32838caf8f477cd124210436962e1a6a0f5b6fe3d2885

那些能给你解决落户问题的公司MDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6Cxk72i,往往在合同里有特殊条件b15331d5767bd4f929e91f2a3ec62bf26e328f00,比如几年内不得离职MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmzjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6CyqLWi,否则要缴纳违约金等JjVjNmVkMzUxYTgyNDY=IzVjNmVkMzUxYTdjZjc=

而你的入职前很难搞清楚这个公司的职场环境65b0b50703ac2b5ab5bd1fc58a4af300b6e70ad3,一旦跟领导相处不来23cf0e726e2a3600b77b409633e3bf53,那在这几年之内c6bb9cabdff75d50a85eee18db46bcc488dbf250,就会非常难受了15bc64b0a512cb3e4ad4889957d0b53e9625c09aMDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm529y8ui

如果选择那个不能解决户口的公司MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6C8y6Wi,你会拿到更高的薪水ITVjNmVkMzUxYTdmYmY=,也拥有跳槽的自由MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2HnqyxqLmiKjVjNmVkMzUxYTdkMDk=

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同样的道理dd1046fec9369239858d2b7e63343b45,如果你要找有本地户口的对象MDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6C828-i,好处是享受本地社保和子女教育e11fffe51a1eb24d1d3d1b5bf9545ef8。但是2ae18dac1785f0c53161d760054317b1,你对他/她在别的方面的标准97deed090d12b1e6c5db83d900cca253944b0337,就必须要降低一些了1da3470ddbd29f2bf08790634a2fa33aMDAwMDAwMDAwMIF9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm56wuL2i

找对象一般都是门当户对的MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6C9qL2i,如果你的资质可以匹配80分的人cb139cd8d23f951f7e1de7e52ce32bb4,而户口占据了其中的10分MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6C9uLWi,那么对方剩余资质加起来就只有70分了JjVjNmVkMzUxYTgyNmM=3323c6f03cb856eea478699df864b957c6e110e1

难道只有户口是必需品吗?美貌、才智、经济条件难道都要被你忽略吗?所以MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmzjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm6C9y7Wi,这样再看JDVjNmVkMzUxYTgwMDE=,你还愿意为了户口不计代价吗?231952c8ca9582313e0e1f4fdc05ae016efbacb0

不过1e135ae3d394ecf30d0e25c59ec8128f,这又引出了另一个影响选择的因素:如果我取得户口JDVjNmVkMzUxYTgwMGY=,意味着给自己加分了649eff60b2a8d48af8bd4dfd789adab2463ebb57,就可以去找更条件更好的对象JDVjNmVkMzUxYTgyNzc=ITVjNmVkMzUxYTdkM2M=

这样计算固然是没错MDAwMDAwMDAwMH6QhZiQubTegop4mbN3eKuyoqGi,但鸡汤哥要提醒各位XjVjNmVkMzUxYTgwMjk=,我们自己在变、社会环境也在变MDAwMDAwMDAwMH6QhZiQubTegop4mbN3gGa8sqGi。只在你现在拥有的财富、情绪、才智条件下a8c8db2a842dadca0cf20cca0cb1ad462f7ad762,户口给你的是这个功能3dcda3ec0eabb4bd0fa2f6dbef7761896430664ad37087262c5db9155a1419ac

很简单的例子是e0138beb50699809b0d11eb8159b45d6f336756b,当未来你更换了居住城市MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqqwk7Wi,原来那个城市的户口就不再重要了;如果政府把福利跟户籍脱钩QDVjNmVkMzUxYTgwNGI=,那户口的分量也会减轻MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2HnqyyqLGiJjVjNmVkMzUxYTdkNGQ=

所以00428f3f75b3c541be03a794addc32e017552321,如果把自己的利益跟户口绑定1076c83d9245bddb4230f4c0f086a740,等于把人生的选择面缩窄JDVjNmVkMzUxYTgyOWI=XjVjNmVkMzUxYTdkNTY=

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除了上面比较功利性的权衡取舍JjVjNmVkMzUxYTgwNmQ=,值得注意的是ITVjNmVkMzUxYTgwNzQ=,户口也可能让人产生思想层面的矛盾MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2HnqyyuLGiMDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm56xy8ei

我们知道KjVjNmVkMzUxYTgwN2I=,开放、包容、自由、平等JjVjNmVkMzUxYTgwODI=,这些价值应该是一个社会逐步向好的发展方向eec0725faa42be98493df6ba19081118a686d44ab9b86023af773aa0b85229f2

而户籍制度MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqjjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2HnqqypbGi,它的特性鼓励人呆的原地、限制人的自由迁徙和择业KjVjNmVkMzUxYTgwOTQ=,同时把生活在一个城市、做着同样工作的人分成两个等级75a88fa4df925f6805c1d4bd2e4a4aadbf5e9da8,显然跟那些美好的社会价值是相违背的XjVjNmVkMzUxYTgyYjU=8ba4d82c5ce2c5c70ee9095a5e9eead4bdcc30f3

如果你在思想上认可社会是不断变好的1fbeb8671c2cebd632db76fa39b74e26,但取得户口等于把自己的利益跟落后的户籍制度绑定1b09783cd5707db3934a214cc35ce3901f880188,那么就会有矛盾了:为了自己的利益337c9b08e13a1df92ac823803036092a,你应该反对户籍制度变松动;为了社会变得更好MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqq8k7Wi,你应该支持取消户籍制度MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqy8y72iMDAwMDAwMDAwMHp9jtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hm56xk72i

这有点类似于你从事着一份夕阳产业的工作d87b616af76e64f0d541f55b31e2f256ebd1f087,时代的进步必然要淘汰这个工作44b15bde975ee62f64420625b4f072bf,而你为了养活自己必须死守这份工作MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqy8zrWiaf9c532dc43928355940ab0a77ae71ef

解决这种思想矛盾的办法:要么抛弃落后的东西MDAwMDAwMDAwMIijjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqq9tb2i,损失的是你此前为了获得它而付出的大把成本;要么把自己的思想变得落后00e5a66f5d0d7a57296123f349d367d442a9380b,损失的是你的智力或者良心MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmzjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnqy827Wi。总之NWM2ZWQzNTFhODBmZg==,思想进步的人跟落后的制度之间ccb540aeeacebf49c5166a73d1457106,必然存在矛盾8e851e1c5c6d3e7cd9c7dce396000abaddd7e66eIzVjNmVkMzUxYTdkOTc=

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以上MDAwMDAwMDAwMHmNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2Hnquwpcui,鸡汤哥不是劝你别在意户口MDAwMDAwMDAwMHqNjtCEz7nPgbCHqb2HnquwqL2i,只是想说5e1b110f2e5e8bd119f9077f7cc7fdb9f3d9c68a,当你做出了选择JjVjNmVkMzUxYTgxMmI=,那就要承当相应的代价53ebb015f8fa1eace1eae9a1805399a0526bb196b1891898f33a80f49777ccae5c64af12

每个人的需求都不一样b3a7d683dfdbfd492c833d6ad1c457c3,如果你考虑清楚了收益和成本XjVjNmVkMzUxYTgxM2Q=,去争取户口JTVjNmVkMzUxYTgxNDQ=,鸡汤哥并不反对QDVjNmVkMzUxYTgyZTI=。社会的变化往往出乎人的意料NWM2ZWQzNTFhODE0Yw==,而人根据有限的见识所预言的未来又何其缥缈!175cd7f6b8163fc55d564aa61a2d464c37eef667

网上流传着建国后派出所给溥仪上户口的轶事——家庭住址难道填紫禁城吗?就像末代皇帝年轻的时候肯定想不到自己有一天要填户口一样45306b4aba7207c4586e6c170cdeef95,我们也无法想象a7d73c74050f9e08c59b013c7dd61ad8,或许将来自己就不再需要户口簿了呢KjVjNmVkMzUxYTgyZTk=d39fa843fcee4a12791fa1611a8c1462

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